Scrolled through countless inspirational posts about “escaping the rat race and moving to New Zealand.” Today, I want to share some honest truths with my fellow sisters.
Workplace Reality:
Before achieving “gender equality,” you must first face the harsh reality of identity and experience discrimination. When 200 resumes go unanswered, you truly grasp the sting behind the self-deprecating term “second-class citizen.”
Salary Filter:
An hourly wage of 96.6 versus 26.4 in Beijing? Auckland’s cost of living will quickly make you reevaluate your finances. While houses may be more affordable compared to Beijing, Shanghai, or Guangzhou, the immigration process is riddled with hidden challenges and unexpected hurdles.
Green Card Dilemma:
The myths surrounding nursing and early childhood education have long been debunked. Surviving in business or liberal arts fields to secure a stable status feels like a high-stakes survival game. Only senior engineers and experienced teachers seem to hold the key to success. Local experience is often valued as highly as a prestigious 985 degree.
Clear Advice:
Prepare for at least two years of living expenses and mental fortitude.
Support from your partner or family is crucial.
Be humble and ready to start from scratch.
Don’t be swayed by the romantic idea of “restarting life in a new country.” True growth begins with a clear understanding of reality. Every choice comes with its own price. A woman who can take responsibility for herself is the main character wherever she goes.
I totally get what you’re saying. The freedom is real, but so are the struggles, especially for women in certain industries. It’s eye-opening to hear how different it can be despite the stereotypes.
Absolutely agree! New Zealand’s progressive image is undeniable, but challenges persist, especially in male-dominated fields. It’s inspiring to see many women breaking barriers there. Thanks for sharing your thoughts—it’s a crucial conversation.